
On March 12, clinicians, advocates, and community leaders came together in Washington, D.C. for the Food is Medicine in Oncology Care Symposium, hosted by the American Cancer Society. The conversation centered on something simple, but powerful: how food can and should be part of cancer care. Among the voices leading that conversation was Food & Friends’ Director of Nutrition Services, Rebecca (Becca) Kahn, MA, RD, LD, and client Kadijah Ash. Together, they offered a clear, human picture of what how medically tailored meals can improve health outcomes for neighbors in need.
Becca shared that while many neighbors in need find their way to Food & Friends through a referral from their doctor, social worker, and care teams, Food & Friends is also working more closely with Managed Care Organizations (MCOs), building new pathways so more people can access medically tailored meals.

Rebecca Kahn, Director of Nutrition Services, speaks at the Food is Medicine in Oncology Care Symposium
That work takes time. It takes trust. And it takes a lot of relationship-building. Becca spoke honestly about that process: how important it is to meet partners where they are and help them understand not just what Food & Friends does as the region’s leader in Food is Medicine, but why it matters for improving patient outcomes, reducing hospital visits and lowering the cost of care.
But if Becca helped explain the system, Kadijah helped everyone in the room feel it.
Kadijah Ash, is a Food & Friends client living with cancer. During the panel discussion, she spoke about her experience as a client with a kind of honesty that immediately grounded the conversation. “Becca is the one who will call me and just see how I’m doing,” she said. “She was a caregiver crème de la crème.”
For Kadijah, what stood out most wasn’t just the support she received, it was how personal it was. Becca didn’t just check in on her meals or her health. She asked about her son, too, making sure he had what he needed. That kind of care goes beyond nutrition. It says: you matter, your family matters, and Food & Friends see the full picture of your life.
Kadijah also offered something the room couldn’t ignore: a reminder to truly listen.
“Listen to the people over the paper,” she said.
Kadijah Ash, client, speaks at the Food is Medicine in Oncology Care Symposium
Charts and data have their place. But they don’t tell you how someone is really feeling. They don’t tell you what’s missing. Kadijah made it clear that when providers slow down and listen, they don’t just improve care for one person, they build understanding that can help the next.
When asked what advice she would give to others facing illness, Kadijah didn’t hesitate. She talked about a moment when a nurse assumed she was healthy just by looking at her—an experience that stuck with her and shaped how she approaches her care.
Her message was simple, and powerful: advocate for yourself.
“Fine is not a feeling,” she said. “Speak up for yourself and tell people how you’re really feeling.”
That willingness to speak up made a difference even in small ways. Kadijah shared how she told Becca she needed seasoning to better enjoy her meals. Soon after, she started receiving spice packets with her meals. It’s a small detail, but it speaks volumes. Care should be responsive. It should feel human.
“I tell people that the doctors and specialists are experts on what they’re experts on,” she said. “But I am an expert on me.”
That line stayed with the room.
Becca Kahn, Kadijah Ash and Food & Friends CEO Carrie Stotlzfus pictured at the Food is Medicine in Oncology Care Symposium
Together, Becca and Kadijah reminded everyone that food as medicine isn’t just about meals. It’s about trust and listening. It’s about meeting people where they are and walking alongside them.
To see the full conversation, watch the panel discussion here:
https://youtu.be/Lhv4b78NNJQ?si=49qM1ptqkId_8TR9&t=14201